Needy

Needy persons are draining. They want to get too much attention that's why they dressup in a dashing way.

Or they talk less of themselves hoping for your re-assurance. They rarely stop talking because they want to be heard. Yet, they seem to repeat the same story a lot.

We all know a lot of them, and we do not want to be like one. 

But do we really need to avoid them? Why do we dislike their behavior?

What if we change our treatment to these people who are being emotionally needy? 

What if it becomes our goal to know why they behave that way?

What if becoming needy is not really about that person but more of their circumstances?

Because I know you had been needy yourself, until there was someone who helped you get what you needed.

Can you give them what they think they deserve?